I wish people would stop placing all black women in the same category. Some people think black women get upset when black men marry or date white women. Well I’m gonna tell you this, I could give a hot rats azz what black men do or who they marry. All women have their issues, but if a black man wants someone of another race then maybe that’s who he was meant to be with. I support a person’s right to choose who they love, so not all black women are obsessed with criticizing black men for their choice in women.
Blaming Black Women
I don’t appreciate men who insult black women by stating we are overbearing, loud, ghetto, and disrespectful. I’m not saying that there aren’t some people like that, but it’s dangerous to group people into the same category. If you haven’t noticed, we are all different. If as a black man you prefer white women, that’s your choice and I support it if it makes you happy. But what I don’t appreciate is the fact that black men blame their choice on the behaviors of black women. No…that has nothing to do with us boo boo. That’s all on your inability to lead a strong black woman.
Furthermore, Black women aren’t hating on our white sistahs for dating/marrying black men. I recently read an article in which a person called “frustrated white girl” who wrote that black women were upset about her relationship with an intelligent black man. I have white friends, and if they were to date and marry a black man I would be the first at the wedding congratulating them both. You see, black woman are kind, loving, and tolerant just like any other individual. I don’t know what crowd this particular “frustrated white girl” associated with, but the intelligent women that I know are worried about finishing their education, getting that high paying job, and finding love with a real man who isn’t intimidated with success. The women causing her frustration must have absolutely nothing to do because black men dating/marrying white women is the last thing on my mind.
This is why we don’t care…
We are strong, educated women who know exactly what we want. If some black men don’t want to deal with it, then go the hell on and find your soul mate else where. I’m happy when men can find that special someone, no matter their skin color. But damn you for thinking that black women have caused you to look else where. Only a weak azz man gives a woman that much power to change his preference in women based on race.
So what’s the damn deal?
In the end this issue has everything to do with the insecurities of men who feel that they must justify their life choices by blaming black women. Don’t blame us dude, if that’s what you want, by all means, get your freak on. And listen to this tea…you complain about black women, but forgetting who gave birth to your azz.