The Tea With Opinionated Mommy: Toxic Friends

imagesToxic Friends…Your Tea Is Served!

Have you ever had a friendship with someone who turned into one of those toxic persons who enjoy reveling in other people’s pain? Sometimes the friendship will never work because a person’s personality changes to shyt.

After severing a life long relationship with a so-called best friend it takes its toll, but in the end you are reminded why you severed the relationship in the first place. Your childhood friend transforms into a total bytch that you can’t trust worth shyt. You can tell her one thing in a phone call, and in the next five minutes you get calls from people enraged because they heard the shyt you just told the bytch in confidence. If you have known someone since childhood, doesn’t that at least give you an hour of loyalty?


After a few years of broken communication with this person, you finally decide that maybe having a relationship on Facebook is safe and appropriate. Well, the problem with this idea is…every post this person writes enrages you to a point that you are angrily commenting on shyt you would never express publicly.  The rage that you continue to feel inside could derive from the inevitable loneliness that you felt once that relationship dissolved, and it could be that this person’s personality is severely infuriating because you have grown to love life without the drama.

Whatever the reason…your azz is unfriended!



  1. I have friends I grew up with and I’m lucky enough that these people are still my friends today. I would find it really shitty if I had to sever ties with one of these people but I am also really invested in a drama free life. My peace of mind is seriously important to me. It’s too bed this has happened to you but what choice do you have. And ultimately it was their choice by acting this way in the first place. One thing I know to be true is that there are people who can live a whole lifetime but never grow up.

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  2. If someone makes me mad or flakes on me even half as often as they make me happy or acts like a true friend, they need to go. Life is too short for that shit. I mean, I advise caution about burning bridges, but… there are other people to make friends with, no reason to stick by someone who won’t stick by you.


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